Yesterday, he came home late and today is a school.
to me, it is too over
and i felt like i have the responsibility to tell him about his problem.
Recently, he likes to stay a night at his friend's house.
It is fine if not often, but now it seems become habit.
Althought their parent did not show their frustration,
we as a friend have to consider their parent's feeling.
Thus, i try to tell him something very important.
Kenny,
here are some words for you, i hope you can understand me.
Althought i'm not an excellent students, i'm experienced enough to say these words.
i wan to introduce a word to you :"self discipline".
you may be understand the meaning of self discipline, but you definitely can't do it right even me.
i know tat discipline is very important, but i still learn it to acheive a perfect level.
you were a national service army, right?
you know why the officer wan the army wake up early in the morning/
and marching almost everyday?
This was to train you to be more self discipline.
i Discipline person know what they have to do at the particular time.
I know that you like to sing.
yes, i'm also very proud to have a brother who has a gifted sound like you.
But, remember singging won't be your whole life carrier.
and pls don forget that studyig is your responsibility, you have to do it consistently.
I did not stop you from being a member of 5a.m.
but. everything you do should not exceed the limit.
you try to think, your book as your family and your friends as singging,
both the family and friends are also important and you spare the same time on both, right?
if not, your family or your friends may be jealous and this could bring out a war...
this is what we always said:" be fair".
Be fair to your parents and friends!
I have a suggestion for you,
you can practice in the afternoon and studying at night.
you always feels sleepy in the afternoon, so you can schedule the afternoon time to sing instead of reading books.
you have to fullfil your promise all the time, maybe you can delay an hour orwhat.
but not just take it fr granted and think that your parents will forgive you, this is not neccesary for your parent to forgive whatever you have done to hurt them.
WHENit is time, please come home and not juggling around.
you can just tell your friend that you have a curfew,
if your friend still cannot understand, then these friends are not consider your situation. means that these are not friend but a jerk.
Kenny, did you know the problem yu havto ?
your problems is you refuse to explain yourself and these make alot of mistake between you and our parents. Anything you feel you should have told them and try to make them underatand you!but not angry becos they blame you something that you din tell them. it is your responsibility to tell them and make them believe. rmb tour parents are n't in your school with youon.they don know what you are thinking.
You always blame thata result with no "a" is not a good result?
a result without "a" can be a good result depend on how many efford you put on it.
However , to me a result without n"a" isn't a good result because our examination system emphasis on how many "a" you can get.
the mportant is you have to show that you are studying, this is to let your old man not too worry for you.
Filial have to practice since childhood.
Filial is not done if you just give your parents a big amount of money.
thesiplest filial practice is let them not to worry about you, the way is let them know your feeling.
Showing love and accompanying is another filial practice.
I know my english is very lousy but i'm really try to improved it.
~nite
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